Also addressing the previous argument I wanna make my case here why I believe I’m in the right with evidence to back me up
Let’s start by answering the reason why I even made the topic in the first place. I wanted to talk about how my ignorance led to me to loosing out on rare titles and rims and I wanted to see if anyone else had stories to share about similar experiences. I also evidently joked about finding Panwellz to talk to him and offering to buy people’s accounts. I did not intend to seriously find panwellz or buy people’s accounts or try to be a comedian to everyone. What I did intend to do was be silly, talk about experiences, and just have fun with others in the community.
Now let’s talks about where the drama begins. The drama begins with STR Energy ㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤ - #28 by STREnergy
Here he claims that I’m making terrible jokes or that I’m being pathetically sad which is just a complete misread of everything. I wasn’t trying to be funny or actually trying to meet Panwellz I was just being sarcastic and goofy and trying to represent how I feel about not having the roles, stupid and wishing for a way they can be obtainable again. It’s very evident that STR brought drama and toxicity into my post. ㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤ - #30 by ckapka
I reply saying that Panwellz actually probably wouldn’t consider me a complete stranger if I were to show up and introduce myself but I had no plans of doing any of that. My reply was more of a mild correction and was in no way toxic to anybody.
Now alanz gets introduced to the post and at first he does nothing wrong and only states the obvious in a fair way ㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤ - #46 by Alanzcool
I don’t reply to his post however because as previously said he is stating the obvious and I agree with him that finding Panwellz will be basically impossible
Alanz then made similar other messages that I don’t reply to because they are correct but unfortunately he starts to get personal with me
As we can see here he basically starts to misinterpret the entire situation and started saying that this is all ragebait and a dumb idea and an unfunny joke. We see how he went from just stating the obviously to now evidently being toxic spontaneously.
Me identifying the issue and NOT WANTING TO STRETCH IT (will be important later) I reminded him that in no way he is forced to continue being part of this post and he has fully authority to leave it ㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤ - #68 by ckapka
However he insists on trying to understand the topic ㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤ - #69 by Alanzcool
I reply telling him that non of those were my intents for this post
STR then jumps in and claims I’m ragebait which is not my intent and he hasn’t provided evidence saying elsewise.
I respond telling him he is absolutely free to feel this way but also clarifying that I’m not trying to ragebait ㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤ - #76 by ckapka
Here you can evidently see that I’m not trying to stretch anything but rather make sure my intentions are clear and that toxicity doesn’t continue
Then alanz makes this response ㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤ - #77 by Alanzcool
My problem with this response was not that he was asking what my intentions are but rather giving me 3 negative options to pick from
I then decided that the toxicity happening in the post was enough so I made this response calling him out ㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤ - #80 by ckapka
Here I said that he was taking this too far with the toxicity and I called him out for overreacting and appearing frustrated
He then makes his reply and before I address his first point let’s answer, was I gaslighting alanz?
Here is the definition of gaslighting: manipulate (someone) using psychological methods into questioning their own sanityor powers of reasoning.
You guys can decide with the evidence I provided if I was gaslighting him
He separated by asking where he got frustrated but before I could respond other things started happening
Though you can see from my perspective why I believe he was behaving in a manner that makes him appear frustrated
Then Euph calls me out saying that now I’m being the stretcher which isn’t technically wrong but let’s understand the context here
they were being toxic
I tried to be as respectful and collective and calm as I could be to descalate
They still were toxic
I had to pick between letting myself be disrespected or calling them out and standing up for myself
Then alanz says this ㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤ - #85 by Alanzcool
My question to alanz is I would love to have told you what my intentions were but you gotta ask nicely
You can’t give me three negative choices and expect me to always try to be respectful to you alanz
You could have just asked what my intensions were leave it at that and none of this would happened
then Cosmo locks the post which is a different issue
As you can see here with evidence I provided my case
Let’s talk about this