I know this doesn’t have much to do with cars or anything like that—and maybe it’s even silly to ask something like this—but I went through a situation with a girl, and sometimes I wish I could be with her again. I used to try to pay attention to her and was content with the little I got in return, even when her responses were brief; I thought she’d notice my effort and the attention I gave her. but is it wrong to want to get back together with her even though I’ve already moved on? Or is there any way to work this out?
I apologize—this might sound stupid—but I’d like to hear the opinion of someone who’s been through a similar situation or just get some advice. Even though I’m trying to move on, sometimes I miss her even more.
you should not get back with someone who didn’t reciprocate the effort you put in for them, relationships should always be on equal footing
i think you’re leaving out some details though, because “situation with a girl” is kinda ambiguous
was this a relationship online? was it irl? was it even a relationship? did she know you saw ti as a relationship? if you answer those it’ll be clearer
^^^ if you’re trying to go after someone who doesn’t really care about you, you’re not gonna get anything out of a relationship
She didn’t have a name… I mean, I met her one day when we were playing as kids. It never went anywhere, precisely because she responded well and seemed interested, but at the same time she made excuses, saying she was too fickle. I understood, but I just wanted her to feel comfortable. I confessed my feelings to her, but she never gave me any sign that she was interested; she just took it well, and that was it. It’s like I’m stuck in the middle. Every time I asked her to go out—even if it was just as friends—she always made an excuse. I’m not saying my school is more important than hers, but it seemed strange to me that she didn’t want to go out, at least as friends. How could it be that I had free time going to a technical school and she was so busy?
I think it’s something I’ve thought about, and honestly, I can see now that she just wasn’t interested at all.